I hope wherever you are, you know Recovery is with you right where you are.
We often describe Recovery as a journey. But what do we really mean by that? When I was in my late teens and early twenties, I loved listening to the rock band Journey. For our purpose here, though, a journey is not a concert tour.
A journey is a path that not all of us choose. Some of us living with mental health or substance use challenges do not realize that Recovery is a lifelong journey. Sometimes we treat it like something to check off a to-do list instead.
After more than thirty years in Recovery and many years working with peers and leading support groups, I have noticed something important. Some of us become stuck in the past or in what some call the first half of life. Much of our energy goes into trying to build an identity, setting limits on ourselves, seeking security, or holding on to people and projects that do not bring lasting meaning.
The Greek philosopher Archimedes said, “Give me a place to stand, and I will move the earth.” In many ways, we all search for that place to stand. This is an important part of the Recovery journey. We need a solid foundation before we can move forward. But finding that foundation is only the beginning. It is the warm-up, not the whole journey.
When we realize there is more to the journey, we begin to prepare differently. We start to see the bigger picture of our lives. At every age, it helps to ask where our lives are leading us and who God is calling us to become.
I am learning the importance of walking this journey with others. I know there is more ahead because I have listened to the gentle voices of people who have gone before me. I have seen their lives, and I have watched others continue to grow. I have also seen the sadness of those who remain stuck and never seem to move forward.
We are invited on this journey, not forced. Each of us must choose to walk it freely, carrying all the messy, broken, and beautiful parts of our own Recovery story. While every journey is unique, there are common patterns, warning signs, and faithful guides who can help us along the way.
On Monday, I will share more about the journey of Recovery.
Stay tuned!
Remember, Recovery is happening right now, in this moment.