Each moment of our lives when tension increases our wounds may surface. For a long time, I acted out to be perfect. Perfection became my silent disturbance. When I did not live up to this standard I told myself I am insignificant. I continue to work on facing this wound to get beyond its hold on my thinking, heart, and soul. Recovery is not hard but relies on my mind and what I bring to my Recovery – “I do some things well and others I fall short and it’s ok.”
When we solve a problem our minds find another one. Are we fixed or healed? To heal is supporting people where they are and coaching them to feel and think differently. If I am fixing it follows the belief there is something fundamentally wrong with me. The sickness of society is not appreciating us where we are and we cannot have what we want or need.
Create a life we love. Live as a creator, not a problem solver (fixer). Our lives are made good on how we feel about it.
- What are the feelings we want to feel? Write them out
- What people make us feel the way we want to be?
- What is enough in our lives (My answer is, “When I can play”)?
Peace
Larry
email: ljw@superhumanbeing.net
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