We are watching Chad do a kind thing. By looking at the two of them, it’s clear that Chad isn’t deeply upset about Tom’s dishonesty. For Chad, it wasn’t such a big deal—but he also knows this kind of struggle can happen in Recovery.
Chad never doubted Tom’s commitment. Instead, he feels compassion, knowing how much guilt and shame Tom carries. Tom is embarrassed—humiliated even—asking himself, “How could I have done such a thing?”
Chad chooses kindness. Though Tom lied to him three times, Chad now offers him the chance to speak love and truth. It is an act of grace, helping Tom practice Recovery in real time.
We may long for a friend like Chad. Many of us know what it feels like to let a friend down—and in doing so, let ourselves down. The beauty of Recovery is the opportunity to make amends and begin again.
When we say we are sorry, when we show someone how much we care, our souls are cleansed—whether or not forgiveness is given. Reconciliation heals the heart, reconnects us with others, and restores us to the world. Recovery invites us to step into that beauty.
SuperHuman Being
Peace
Larry
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